I went to a lovely tea party at the Christadelphian Hall. My mother and granddaughter sat at the table with me and enjoyed a delicious spread, a variety of teas, and fun conversation. A Bible class was led by Maritta Terrell pointing out metaphors for spiritual life in the form of tea. Ideas like the following:
- It is what’s inside that counts. The tea bag itself is not significant. It’s the tea leaves that create the flavor.
- Hot water is needed to steep the tea. Just like we are tested at times to see what we’re made of.
- It takes time to steep tea. We need to be patient with ourselves.
- Additives make it even better. I prefer cream and sugar in mine. Our connections with others add to our experience and make life better.
I am not a member of the Christadelphians anymore, but I am thankful for the foundation of discipline, critical thinking, ethical standards, and examples of faith that have helped to shape me. I was asked when I would return as a member by a dear friend at the tea party. I explained that my current status as a feminist makes such a likelihood improbable.
But these people are my family, my past, and hopefully part of my future. If they will accept my presence without complete agreement with their views, I will continue to visit and connect. I love tea parties!
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