It makes me so sad that people hurt others and break their own hearts, that alleviating pain destroys so many from the inside out, and we must endure misfortune and loss, especially if we allow ourselves to love with the full volume of our souls.
@Home Studio – 267th poem of the year
Runner ups for the Sad photos to accompany my poem:
Artifact M123ST was found in the ruins of one of the few habitations to have survived the cataclysm mostly intact. It is a six-sided rectangular box. We are unable to ascertain the container’s true purpose but feel certain it must have been used to store items of religious or spiritual significance, or it has also been suggested that they were used as protective casings for one of their most valuable assets–sand. It is known that sand became a valuable commodity prior to the cataclysm, as it was one of the fundamental, critical components of building materials in their world. Undecipherable characters appear to be inscribed in patterns, though the sample size is too small to determine if it is representative of language, or merely decorative scrawling. Of special interest is the latching mechanism that holds the lid of the box closed. A small rectangular indentation can be pressed, releasing the latch, which permits the lid to spring open. A satisfying click indicates the lid has been closed securely when the latch reengages. We know little of these primitive people who lived before the cataclysm, but artifacts such as these offer a glimpse into their lost culture.
My man is in Japan learning what he can from teachers who understand that the world is vast, and dreams are grand for those who are willing to stretch and expand both body and spirit by making a personal demand that pliability and fortitude exist when things unplanned knock us off center, we discover that we are able to withstand most of life’s assaults with a calm heart, a quiet mind, and an open hand.
Maybe the way I wash this knife with precision, erasing the past with friction, soap, and molecules is in some little way the meaning of life.
Maybe scraping the crusty remnants of drippage on countertops until the rag slides smooth is its own reward somehow.
Maybe the fact that hot water melts butter residue from a dish, inviting it to slip effortlessly from its former state and find freedom in movement is the most real thing I know, or think I know, or want to know because knowing is somehow solid, purposeful, sure, and I suspect that I know nothing, or there is nothing to know, or knowing means nothing, thus, washing a knife is the meaning of life.
@Home Studio – 264th poem of the year
Runner ups for the Washing Dishes photos to accompany my poem (AI had a hard time with this one):
I’m zipping through the streets of Italy on a motorbike, past the Colosseum, looking with my eyes, not my phone. Being beside things built to last slows the pace of time to cobblestone roads that lead to fountains and statues who’ve seen many iterations of me over the last thousand years gazing back at them. Buongiorno, they cheer across the plaza to welcome me back again.
@Home Studio – 263rd poem of the year (inspired by an episode of Emily in Paris set in Rome)
Star, Darren, et al. Emily in Paris. “Roman Holiday” Los Angeles, CA, Paramount, 2024.
These days, people are always on about girl dinner and boy dinner, but what about Mom dinner? That’s the meal where you get a spoonful of the stir-fry you are making to taste what seasonings are needed, a bite of each veggie as you chop it, a spoonful of baby food to show them how yummy it is, and one chicken nugget that was left on your child’s plate and looked forlorn all by its lonesome. You dip a carrot stick in ketchup and eat half a string cheese that was left on the counter by a kid. The last swig of backwash apple juice remaining in a sippy cup might be what you get to drink. Ask any Mom what a Mom dinner is and the same haggard face of recognition will nod in sympathy.
I am always fascinated by people unafraid to share the gruesome details of their lives with the rest of us so we can hold them up to the light and examine their every wart and crack, wrinkle and roll of fat like specimens. But the glass jar with pink paper inside that made the cover look warm and inviting was a trap that forced me to witness her most vulnerable moments, and now I feel sad and embarrassed for her.
@Home Studio on 9/17/24 @ 7:45pm – 261st poem of the year (After reading Safekeeping-some true stories from a life by Abigail Thomas.)
Thomas, Abigail. Safekeeping -some true stories from a life. Anchor Books, 2001.
Runner ups for the Safekeeping photos to accompany my poem:
I know how to hold a cockroach. That is not the problem. The real problem is in the willingness to hold the cockroach because I don’t want to. I absolutely know intellectually that the cockroach will not harm me, and I absolutely know spiritually that cockroaches are God’s creatures, too, and I absolutely know psychologically that the exercise is good for my psyche and all that jazz, but I still don’t want to extend my hand and allow the cockroach to climb aboard and scurry all around. I just got chills up my spine thinking about it because the story is still too strong that my mind makes up, and I’m just not ready to let it go.
@Home Studio – 260th poem of the year (After reading How to Hold a Cockroach by Matthew Maxwell.)
Maxwell, Matthew. Illustrations by Allie Daigle. How to Hold a Cockroach – A book for those who are free and don’t know it, Hearthstone, 2020.
Runner ups for the Cockroach photos to accompany my poem:
My husband is in the air as I write this. His body is literally catapulting through the sky at over 500 miles per hour and we are all supposed to act like that is a perfectly normal thing for a human to do on a random Sunday night. I guess it is actually a Monday afternoon in Japan because he’s going so fast he’s skipping most of a day into the future. Is anything real on this strange sphere we call home that spins at 1,000 miles per hour while circling the sun at 67,000 miles per hour in our solar system that is zipping 450,000 miles per hour around the Milky Way?
(Photo from my Family Ladies Lunch for my 51st Birthday. This is the last photo I have of myself as a 50-year-old.)
My husband reminded me today that it was my last day to be a Beck 50, and I scolded him for coming up with such a great line on the last day of my 50th year. Why couldn’t he have thought of it sooner, so I could have been using it all year long? He only thought of it after remembering that his cousin Cynthia was 50 Cent for her 50th year of life, and I am disappointed to have missed the opportunity to use the pun because am the sort who would have used and abused that moniker.